Okay… and now for something completely different
I’ve always taken a fair amount of flack from my family over getting my life together, getting a job, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. This last year and a half it has probably gotten more prolific as I’ve been out of work and not really “productive” in their eyes. My days have either been spent in front of the computer or just lounging about.
The thing is… It doesn’t really bother me what everyone says. To me it isn’t really that I can’t do the work or that I haven’t found a job/career that I’m happy with. To me it all comes down to the simple fact that I am where I want to be in life. And I’m with who I want to be with. I found that person that I wanted to go home to after a busy day of work. I found the person that makes going to work worth coming home from. I found someone who can love me, play with me, give me shit, call me on my shit, and everything else that gives this whole mindless experience called life meaning. Basically I found someone I can enjoy, love, and respect.
This is the point where my life grows from now. This is where decisions are made that life is built on.
I just know that it’s not about doing it, it’s about who you’re doing it with. I am with someone who is right there with me and makes everything I do possible. If it wasn’t for that, I would never have bothered.
Basically what it comes down to is this… In no uncertain terms. I love my wife more than anything else in the world (Except for maybe cheese, but that’s a whole other ball game). I just wanted to take the time out of my unbusy day to share that with the world.